I was reading yesterday's newspaper and one of the "small" time news was about some village where the punishment for a rapist was to be beaten with shoes and apologize to the victim and their family.
This is not the first time, the whole concept of rape is being underplayed in our country. There were and are scores of such cases where the issue is not even considered an act of wrong-doing, leave alone a sin. I wonder, if cruel treatment and hard core harsh punishments to the guilty would make a difference in our society. And increasingly, I feel this is the only way to go in order to put an end to the hardships that women face.
Capital punishment is the ONLY way to go. It should not be something as simple as putting the guilty individual to a permanent rest. The way to his death should not be any less painful than what he had inflicted on a woman. For example, stripping the guilty naked, smearing honey on him and lettin big red ants to kill him in a slow and painful way wood be a good punishment. Every scream and shout, plead for mercy should be shown LIVE in all the leading channels and everyone should watch and read about the punishment.
Instilling FEAR is the best way to curb such criminal activities. Human rights have no room here. In fact, it is for the very protection of such human rights, that we will have to have these punishments.
If someone feels that the punishment is quite harsh, the choice is theirs. You don't rape, you don't face the axe.
Sunday, August 20, 2006
Saturday, August 19, 2006
Ten bucks and me
Bearing the non-summer heat and commuting the usual jam packed roads of Bangalore on a Saturday morning wasn't making the weekend look any pleasant. But when one has the Hobson's choice, it is best to stop fretting and fuming about it and try to wrap up the task at hand at the earliest.
I was on the way to office and in one of the rare occasions, riding, meandering through the thick smoke and blaring horns. While waiting in one of the numerous traffic lights, I noticed a old man on the opposite side of the road, standing (rather trying to stand) in the pavement, seeking alms from the passersby. It is not a rare phenomena to find people begging, but something about this man drew my attention.
The sorry state of his lifeless legs and his constant struggle to maintain his stability would beg for sympathy from anyone and everyone. Probably in his early 60's, life was refusing to go easy on him. I don't know if he has a family, food, shelter or anything worth calling a possession.
I wanted to help him, but wasn't sure how. I never am sure when it comes to such things and before I think more, I ward of such thoughts saying, there isn't much I can do about such things. The traffic light turned green and it was time for me to take the 'U' turn. I did that and started moving towards the man. He sensed the fact that I was slowing down and quickly limped to the edge of the pavement, hoping to get a rupee or two. There was lot of expectation, hope and despair in his eyes. I picked up a ten rupee note from my purse, gave him a warm smile and told him to take this. He was not just happy, but jubilant. A moment, I was happy for him. He thanked me and got back to his job and I just moved on.
The 10 rupees will not even fetch a square meal today, but it was something that I wanted to do and I did. I thought about the man for a while, but the more I did, the more frustrating it was. I didn't want to think anymore. I can't make a difference to him or many others like him. This is me and I shall be one in the crowd.
I was on the way to office and in one of the rare occasions, riding, meandering through the thick smoke and blaring horns. While waiting in one of the numerous traffic lights, I noticed a old man on the opposite side of the road, standing (rather trying to stand) in the pavement, seeking alms from the passersby. It is not a rare phenomena to find people begging, but something about this man drew my attention.
The sorry state of his lifeless legs and his constant struggle to maintain his stability would beg for sympathy from anyone and everyone. Probably in his early 60's, life was refusing to go easy on him. I don't know if he has a family, food, shelter or anything worth calling a possession.
I wanted to help him, but wasn't sure how. I never am sure when it comes to such things and before I think more, I ward of such thoughts saying, there isn't much I can do about such things. The traffic light turned green and it was time for me to take the 'U' turn. I did that and started moving towards the man. He sensed the fact that I was slowing down and quickly limped to the edge of the pavement, hoping to get a rupee or two. There was lot of expectation, hope and despair in his eyes. I picked up a ten rupee note from my purse, gave him a warm smile and told him to take this. He was not just happy, but jubilant. A moment, I was happy for him. He thanked me and got back to his job and I just moved on.
The 10 rupees will not even fetch a square meal today, but it was something that I wanted to do and I did. I thought about the man for a while, but the more I did, the more frustrating it was. I didn't want to think anymore. I can't make a difference to him or many others like him. This is me and I shall be one in the crowd.
Saturday, August 05, 2006
Topics which have more meat!
One of my friends recently commented on my blog saying that it was too dry and there aren't any topics that has some substantial stuff to chew on (like meat?). So I was wondering what could be topics that would evoke interest or arouse the curiosity of a person to read more from a blog. Some of the points that came from the top of my head are:
1) Controversial topics (definitely a sure shot way of evoking interest in reading and responding)
2) Funny topics (quite a broad category, but anything that can tickle the funny bone)
3) Disparaging topics (I don't think I will ever get into this space though!)
4) Introspective/Questionable topics (like my friend in his recent past made a post, "What is the purpose of life"?)
I haven't ordered them in a priority fashion, but just jotted down as they came to my mind. If someone can provide more specific topics, those are most welcome to do so.
All said and done, if the stuff we write has the correct verbiage, it will definitely make an impression on the reader. More than "what" we write, it is probably "how" we write matters the most (I for instance, definitely have a long way to get there!)
1) Controversial topics (definitely a sure shot way of evoking interest in reading and responding)
2) Funny topics (quite a broad category, but anything that can tickle the funny bone)
3) Disparaging topics (I don't think I will ever get into this space though!)
4) Introspective/Questionable topics (like my friend in his recent past made a post, "What is the purpose of life"?)
I haven't ordered them in a priority fashion, but just jotted down as they came to my mind. If someone can provide more specific topics, those are most welcome to do so.
All said and done, if the stuff we write has the correct verbiage, it will definitely make an impression on the reader. More than "what" we write, it is probably "how" we write matters the most (I for instance, definitely have a long way to get there!)
Tuesday, August 01, 2006
Savor this!
Bisibelle bhat with fried cashews and ghee drippig all over it
Chocolate pancakes dipped in chocolate sauce with lots and lots of whipped cream and chocolate chips on the top
Badam Kheer prepared ONLY with almonds.
Honey dipped oats and deep fried almonds, pistachio and cashew toppings
Carrot Halwa with excessive ghee
Tortillas filled with baked potatoes and cheese sauce on top of it.
Ghee and Cheese Masala Dosa with Sambar prepared in ghee
Crispy doughnuts filled with strawberry creme, sugar glazed and chocolate toppings
If you are wondering what is common amongst all this and why I am mentioning it here, there is only one reason.
I LOVE these items and could kill to get hold of one or many. Anything with the words, cheese, ghee, butter or chocolate would be no less inviting to me.
And for the dessert, it is Tiramasu and Dark chocolate with dripping honey :)
Chocolate pancakes dipped in chocolate sauce with lots and lots of whipped cream and chocolate chips on the top
Badam Kheer prepared ONLY with almonds.
Honey dipped oats and deep fried almonds, pistachio and cashew toppings
Carrot Halwa with excessive ghee
Tortillas filled with baked potatoes and cheese sauce on top of it.
Ghee and Cheese Masala Dosa with Sambar prepared in ghee
Crispy doughnuts filled with strawberry creme, sugar glazed and chocolate toppings
If you are wondering what is common amongst all this and why I am mentioning it here, there is only one reason.
I LOVE these items and could kill to get hold of one or many. Anything with the words, cheese, ghee, butter or chocolate would be no less inviting to me.
And for the dessert, it is Tiramasu and Dark chocolate with dripping honey :)
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